I hope she's pregnant.

[rukisuto]

So, I need to vent quite a bit.
I've talked about it, but maybe typing will help me some more.

Monday my boyfriend called me and told me that saturday night he had sex with another girl, a girl whom I was formerly acquainted with. Her and her friend went up to hang out with him for Winter Carnival and they got completely OBLITERATED in his room.

I told him I hated it. I didn't want him drinking with them and I didn't want them staying the night in his room. But my feelings never mattered to him so he carried on what he was doing anyways.

I called him at 10:30, he was obviously drunk, but all he kept saying was that I didn't need to worry, he loved me so much, cares about me, and that he would never EVER do anything to hurt me again.

NOT TEN MINUTES LATER DOES HE GO AND F--K THAT STUPID A-- C--T.

He told me that he remembers nothing from that night. He doesn't remember talking to me and he doesn't remember f--king her, and he lied to me about it. He said he remembered everything.

And to think I even took him back for cheating on me the first time. He humiliated me, embarassed me, and I f--king hate him. I never want to see his face again.

The only reason I think he could tell me he did that was BECAUSE it was over the phone and not to my face. You can believe I would have beat the everliving s--t out of him.

All I ever did was love him, care for him, and trust him with all my heart. God I f--king hate him.

He took her virginity, didn't wear a condom, and someone told me that she had herpes. I hope that b--ch is pregnant and the rest of his life is ruined.

NEVER again, I'm never putting up with this kind of s--t ever again.


How can you do that to someone you say you love..?

[Eric]

Dam that sucks. Never been cheated on or cheated myself. Had crappy gf's yes. even when im drunk I know not to do stuff with other girls. Just the way I was brought up.

[Yuuki]

I am so sorry to hear that... -gives you hugsx100-
I don't really know what to say..
I know that things like this hurt, and hurt a lot.
But never could I relate to how you feel now. :/
-hugs lots again-

[LemonRising]

That's messed, Ruki that's horrible I'm so sorry you have to go through this (AND TWICE?)
You definitely deserve someone much much better and I hope he gets what's comin to him.
And drunk or not it's completely his fault and no excuse. He should have listened to you in the first place and not let them stay over.

>: how horrible.

[Samus-Fan]

D:
Omg, I can't comprehend it.
I can't understand how much that hurts...
I have nothing to compare it with, so all I know is it hurts, more than I can imagine.
I'm so sorry to hear that...Hope he gets all messed up. I say you go and punch him square in the face.

[Riku-Nara]

Yes Ruki, the most logical response to this situation seems to be a severe ass beating.
And i could help. Really, tell him to meet me at the state fair in a couple of months.
**** will go down.

[rukisuto]

His spring break is in a couple weeks.
I WANT TO THROTTLE THE PISS OUT OF HIM.

Thanks for all the consolation you guys.

It's so hard.
I can't eat, nothing has flavor, I need to constantly do something, if I'm not angry I'm crying, and I can't even sleep in my own room.
All I see is the image of him f--king her and I can't get it out of my head.

[Samus-Fan]

D:
Yea, nothing I can even think of.
If he trys to "apologize", I would just laugh at him and than punch him.
Oh, and may I join in the "Beating the s--t outta him? Gamers-Forum could gang up on him >: D

[Yuuki]

His spring break is in a couple weeks.
I WANT TO THROTTLE THE PISS OUT OF HIM.

Thanks for all the consolation you guys.

It's so hard.
I can't eat, nothing has flavor, I need to constantly do something, if I'm not angry I'm crying, and I can't even sleep in my own room.
All I see is the image of him f--king her and I can't get it out of my head.

:/

Might we help throttle the piss out of him?
Just thinking of something like this happening pisses me off...

EDIT:
@Samus: YES.
I second that! I say we gang up on him too!
-evil laugh-

[rukisuto]

Oh, there is no apologizing or making up for this and I made that VERY clear.
I said I wouldn't tolerate it 5 months ago when I took him back and I said it Monday night.
He knew when he called me and told me that it was over.

I hope his life is ruined.

[Yuuki]

I wouldn't forgive him either.
Not after something like.
I am pretty easy going, but never would I let something like that pass.

[rukisuto]

She knew about us too, that we were together for two years.
She told me that she was against it and she even said 'What about Brittany?'
F--K HER.

Her friends are saying he raped her now, trying to make excuses for her actions.
It takes two to tango whore.

God I hate them both.

[Samus-Fan]

Oh, I bet he'll regret it when he waves up with no....EARS!
That's it, Ears!
He shall wake up with no ears, and then see them at the foot of his bed.

And wow, you can't cover that up, and saying it was rape. Wow.

[Yuuki]

o_O;
Rape? Wth.
Wow. She's a whore AND a dumba--.
You get his ears, Samus.
Imma get his feet.

[LiNuX]

I felt bad hearing it the first time and hearing the whole story makes me feel worse, I despise people who thinks they can get away with stuff like this. You really do deserve better. Just lay some super guilty stuff on him, make him cry his eyes out, it'll make you feel better, he'll suffer longer than if you just hit him int he head with a baseball bat...he won't really feel anything for a while

And if you really do want to ruin his life, compel the girl to go with rape...and then use the guilt thing on her later...

too mean?

[Blackleo]

1. Cut his balls off.
2. How did she have herpes and a virgin I do not know.
3. That's ****ed up!
4. If you don't mind me asking, how long were ya going out?
5. He's a dumbass for doing it without a condom.
6. We guys say we don't remember but trust me we remember.
7. Did I mention to cut his balls off ?
8. Time heals all things =)
9. Time heals all things faster if you cut his balls off =D
10. I know it hurts you now and when you will think about it but this is yet another pit stop in the race of life. It will take long for you to get over it or you may not get over it at all.

P.S. If there is anything else you know that all of us here at GF (myself included) will be there for you or any other GF member in times of need. ( I am somewhat of a good advisor from what I am told)

Don't mind the 4th question I just re-read your post.

[Yuuki]

Cutting his balls off will leave him with no dignity.
Waittt, he has no dignity.
He will be left with no manhood. =)
Or mangoods. *cough cough* ^^

[LiNuX]

leo just edit your post next time :) and you're a good adviser when it comes to cutting people's balls off? remind me not to make you mad...

[Blackleo]

Hehe no not cause of that nux. I am a good advisor if you want a serious talk and such. I may be able to help you out. That goes for everyone, yes even you nux.

[Riku-Nara]

All this talk of cutting balls off is making me uncomfortable.

[jakncoke]

that sucks, come to PA I'll show you how a man treats a women :)

[rukisuto]

that sucks, come to PA I'll show you how a man treats a women :)

I would LOVE that :]

I'm planning on getting drunk next weekend, so there better be some cute guys there. My friend is coming home today from college because her dad is getting remarried, so I have a bunch of things to busy my time.

For the past week or so I was really thinking about him and I really having a life together.
Finishing college, moving in, getting married? I daydreamed all day.
I FEEL SO STUPID NOW.
He told me that he was thinking of transferring to U of M too.

God, I hate him.

P.S. Nothing is ever too mean. I don't give a rats a-- about them. No one else here does either, haha.

I went on his facebook and wrote gay jokes on his wall. Like, "He's not much of a pitcher boys, but he sure likes to catch!"
But he didn't appreciate that at all and told me I WAS OVERREACTING.
I cannot believe the audacity he had to tell me that.

And she was ignoring my phone calls AND deleting the comments I posted.
So I sent her a chat on facebook and she said "What the hell do you want me to say to you?"
HOW ABOUT SORRY YOU C--T A-- WHORE.

I hope he fails college.

[awesomeplayers]

I am so sorry to hear that

[jakncoke]

told me I WAS OVERREACTING.


lol what a douche

[LiNuX]

I would LOVE that :]

I'm planning on getting drunk next weekend, so there better be some cute guys there. My friend is coming home today from college because her dad is getting remarried, so I have a bunch of things to busy my time.

For the past week or so I was really thinking about him and I really having a life together.
Finishing college, moving in, getting married? I daydreamed all day.
I FEEL SO STUPID NOW.
He told me that he was thinking of transferring to U of M too.

God, I hate him.

P.S. Nothing is ever too mean. I don't give a rats a-- about them. No one else here does either, haha.

I went on his facebook and wrote gay jokes on his wall. Like, "He's not much of a pitcher boys, but he sure likes to catch!"
But he didn't appreciate that at all and told me I WAS OVERREACTING.
I cannot believe the audacity he had to tell me that.

And she was ignoring my phone calls AND deleting the comments I posted.
So I sent her a chat on facebook and she said "What the hell do you want me to say to you?"
HOW ABOUT SORRY YOU C--T A-- WHORE.

I hope he fails college.

lol overreacting...In this situation, I would call running at him with an axe to be overreacting...

[Samus-Fan]

lol overreacting...In this situation, I would call running at him with an axe to be overreacting...

Nah, I would think that could be quite reasonable.
Now, if it was a flaming battle axe with barbed ends, with poison dipped tips, that might be overreacting.

[squirt-mackem]

D:! OMG That is SO HORRIBLE! >:! I Hope she's pregnant too! A Guy should NEVER do that to ANYONE! -Super Big Massive Hugs a 1000000-

[Kiss]

I am going to walk away now.

[Blackleo]

Blackmail !!! Tell all the girls that he uses viagra to get it up !!!

[jakncoke]

yeah go into a slander war

for the whore: she has crabs, stuffs her bra, has a CP collection, has dingleberry's, has several porn on the net doing sexual deviate activity's to children

for the loser: has a small penis, is a soldier of the minutemen , has videos of him letting dogs lick peanut butter off his wang, has crabs,

[LemonRising]

Make sushi out of em.

Mmm cannibalism.
We can dip em in wasabi it'll be great!
ANYONE WITH ME? 8D

[rukisuto]

For some reason, I don't think I'd enjoy human-sushi.
lol.

[LiNuX]

For some reason, I don't think I'd enjoy human-sushi.
lol.

just don't eat the dirty parts

[rukisuto]

Hm, I think I'd get more satisfaction just beating the ever-living piss out of him.

[LemonRising]

Ok we can do that.

all ya need is a 2x4 and some redbull.

[rukisuto]

Ok we can do that.

all ya need is a 2x4 and some redbull.

If he wasn't 10 hours away, you could bet you a-- I would have driven up there and kicked the sh-t out of his good for nothing, worthless a--.

[LiNuX]

If he wasn't 10 hours away, you could bet you a-- I would have driven up there and kicked the sh-t out of his good for nothing, worthless a--.

remind me to add you to my list of "never ever never never make mad"

[rukisuto]

I wanted to let you know I have an update, lol.
Apparently he slept with her WHILE she was on her period AND after she already threw up in the bed.
ROFL.

He's a fag.
Oh yeah, now he's smoking weed.

Anyways, I met this new guy. He's fantastic and SO cute :]
His name is Matt, we met through my cousin.

Is it bad he's an inch shorter than me? Haha.

http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/7/l_e862c545486b46b18e7088bd13e8d1ab.jpg

[Riku-Nara]

Only thing i noticed about that shirt was a family force 5 shirt tbh.

[rukisuto]

Only thing i noticed about that shirt was a family force 5 shirt tbh.

I'm not sure what you're getting at, but ok.
I didn't mention anything about a shirt.

[LiNuX]

all that matters is that you're happy

and riku was commenting on the shirt you are wearing in that pic lol

also from the pic, it looks like he's super tall lol. how tall are you?

[rukisuto]

all that matters is that you're happy

and riku was commenting on the shirt you are wearing in that pic lol

also from the pic, it looks like he's super tall lol. how tall are you?

I know he was, it just was irrelevant, lol.

We were laying down, so he was curled up and around.
I'm 5'6", so he's a pip squeak lol.

[LiNuX]

I know he was, it just was irrelevant, lol.

We were laying down, so he was curled up and around.
I'm 5'6", so he's a pip squeak lol.

ah, well yeah, he looks tall lol, but height isn't everything. hope he keeps you happy :) let me know if you need anyone to be run over..anyone! run over by what? I can't say publicly

[rukisuto]

Thanks :]
I'm definitely happy, he's such a great guy.
We're not dating yet.. but hopefully soon.

My mom keeps making fun of him to me, lol.
She's a weenie.

[LiNuX]

Thanks :]
I'm definitely happy, he's such a great guy.
We're not dating yet.. but hopefully soon.

My mom keeps making fun of him to me, lol.
She's a weenie.

why does she make fun of him and what does she say? interested to know lol

[XXXBurningStarIV]

Eeep. /wipes eyes
I don't even know you and I'm crying for you.
These things always get me so emotional. Why are guys always such pigs?
/sniff sniff

I hope everything works out for you two.

And I hope the ****'s pregnant too.
>_<

Sorry again. =[[

[Exodyus]

Dear Beautiful Ruki,

Firstly, I'm not a nice person - if you hadn't gotten that already, and I'm a bit of a jerk - but the one thing my mother didn't raise was a chauvinist. And for cheating men, I'm sorry. Most men don't have two brain cells in their head to rub together to create a cognitive thought and really only think with their dicks.

With that said, the expression, "Fool me once, Shame on you. Fool me twice, Shame on me." fits this scenario pretty perfectly. Though you didn't expect him to cheat on you once - let alone a second time, sorry to say - makes you dumb. Makes you insecure also...
I'm sorry for my bluntness and I know people will jump on me for this, but hun - you're worth more than that. A man who will cheat once, WILL - DO - IT - AGAIN.

I have been cheated on, which is probably a good portion of why I'm truly bitter about a lot of things and am sarcastic - often. So I feel your pain, but you HAVE to realize that you DATE and LIVE on your terms.

He/she cheats once. F-ck him. Done. Not a friend. Not an acquaintance. Nothing. He's lower than dog sh-t and on the same level as some dumbass rapist in jail. Yes - cheaters deserve to be sodomized...

Why?

Because one - it's pathetic, two - it's cowardice, three - you weren't man enough to just be loyal and honest.

And to end my cheaters rant, ;) I think the picture would have made a lot more believable justice, if he had his shirt on. It seems ... eh - I'm just gunna stop, so I don't get hated on.

Glad you're happy.


PS -

He took her virginity, didn't wear a condom, and someone told me that she had herpes. I hope that b--ch is pregnant and the rest of his life is ruined.

If she's a virgin, she probably doesn't have herpes.
Since she was on her period, she probably didn't get pregnant. Chances are nearly 1~3% that you would, I think.
And the fact that she threw up in the bed before sex, means she's a skinny b-tch of a light weight. ;) Lol.

[XXXBurningStarIV]

It took me and my boyfriend almost a year to get pregnant. And we had sex with a condom once.

[Exodyus]

It took me and my boyfriend almost a year to get pregnant. And we had sex with a condom once.

I'm not going to go into detail on this forum with a bunch of little prepubescent, non-sexual tweens running around - but there's a lot more to "having sex" and "getting pregnant" that has more to do with precision and chemistry than most people think.

Odds of getting pregnant in typical intercourse where it's just for kicks, a one night stand, or lacking on one of the person's parts is actually a lot slimmer than most think.

However, on the rare chance that two newbs do something right, bada-bing. Shotgun weddings.

PM me if you wanna have a fun chat. Lol.

[rukisuto]

Dear Beautiful Ruki,

Firstly, I'm not a nice person - if you hadn't gotten that already, and I'm a bit of a jerk - but the one thing my mother didn't raise was a chauvinist. And for cheating men, I'm sorry. Most men don't have two brain cells in their head to rub together to create a cognitive thought and really only think with their dicks.

With that said, the expression, "Fool me once, Shame on you. Fool me twice, Shame on me." fits this scenario pretty perfectly. Though you didn't expect him to cheat on you once - let alone a second time, sorry to say - makes you dumb. Makes you insecure also...
I'm sorry for my bluntness and I know people will jump on me for this, but hun - you're worth more than that. A man who will cheat once, WILL - DO - IT - AGAIN.

I have been cheated on, which is probably a good portion of why I'm truly bitter about a lot of things and am sarcastic - often. So I feel your pain, but you HAVE to realize that you DATE and LIVE on your terms.

He/she cheats once. F-ck him. Done. Not a friend. Not an acquaintance. Nothing. He's lower than dog sh-t and on the same level as some dumbass rapist in jail. Yes - cheaters deserve to be sodomized...

Why?

Because one - it's pathetic, two - it's cowardice, three - you weren't man enough to just be loyal and honest.

And to end my cheaters rant, ;) I think the picture would have made a lot more believable justice, if he had his shirt on. It seems ... eh - I'm just gunna stop, so I don't get hated on.

Glad you're happy.


PS -


If she's a virgin, she probably doesn't have herpes.
Since she was on her period, she probably didn't get pregnant. Chances are nearly 1~3% that you would, I think.
And the fact that she threw up in the bed before sex, means she's a skinny b-tch of a light weight. ;) Lol.

I understand and I thank you for saying everything you said in that post.
Believe me, I realize the 'Fool me once' statement and I have actually said it quite a few times to quite a few people. Opening my heart and mind to give someone a second chance doesn't make me dumb and insecure, though. It's exactly what it is, a second chance. Notice how he's not around now? It's because I'm not dumb and insecure.

I find it takes mistakes to learn and I've definitely learned a lot from this experience. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Rarely do people ever really change. It's obvious to me now that I will never open my heart again to someone that cheats on me.

I've grown from this and I've moved on



I think the picture would have made a lot more believable justice, if he had his shirt on. It seems ... eh - I'm just gunna stop, so I don't get hated on.

What are you trying to say, exactly?
I thought a photo was believable because it's a photo.

[Exodyus]

Nothin', doll. It's not worth the trouble.

[rukisuto]

Nothin', doll. It's not worth the trouble.

Then you really shouldn't have typed anything at all about it if you weren't going to tell anybody anything about it anyways. That's kind of annoying.

But whatever.

[EpsilonX]

i'm the vengeful type. I pity the girl that ever cheats on me, because her life will become ********** hell.

this is part of the reason i don't like drinking lol. i hope someone kicks that dudes ass haha

(no i did not bother to read past the first page)

[Exodyus]

i'm the vengeful type. I pity the girl that ever cheats on me, because her life will become ********** hell.

this is part of the reason i don't like drinking lol. i hope someone kicks that dudes ass haha

(no i did not bother to read past the first page)

Lol. I agree with you totally.
The last girl that cheated on me, I saw her and her "new boyfriend" in the mall and he was like -
"What's up, d-bag!?"
and I was all like B)
"How's my nut taste?"

He looked at her real fast and was like, "YOU LIED!!" then walked off.
She just gave me a really nasty look and I LOL'd hard.



Then you really shouldn't have typed anything at all about it if you weren't going to tell anybody anything about it anyways. That's kind of annoying.

But whatever.

You're never even active anymore - what's annoying is you comin' back and telling me that I'm being annoying simply because I don't want to tell her that OMG - she found a new man and is already in bed with him and his shirt is off and how that's just a f-ckin set up for another wonderful disaster and her feelings will be shattered ALL over again.

She's young.
She's starting fast.
She's on another tract that's "WOOO WOOOO!" bound for disaster.

But what do I know...

Way to go, Ruki.

[Samus-Fan]

she found a new man and is already in bed with him and his shirt is off and how that's just a f-ckin set up for another wonderful disaster and her feelings will be shattered ALL over again.

She's young.
She's starting fast.
She's on another tract that's "WOOO WOOOO!" bound for disaster.

But what do I know...

Way to go, Ruki.

Honestly, I am going to have to -gasp- agree with Exodyus here.
One thing I love seeing is a fast growing relationship- because the faster it grows, the faster it falls.
One of my friends, Emily, started dating Adam, this little skater guy she has had a "crush" on. They start dating. During this, they make out, Adam rubs Emily's leg (Still 14 each Lol.) and guess what?
One week after they started dating- BAM they broke it.
I find it funny how people think a fast relationship works all the time, it's only gonna work how much? Not even 30% of the time.
My opinion, though.

[YuriPrime]

Shave off one of his eyebrows. And while you're at it, shave some random patterns in his hair.

[XXXBurningStarIV]

Back of his head though. So he wont notice.
Or shave off all of his hair, and leave him with a rat's tail. Hopefully he wont notice. And he walks around all day with it. xD
Lol. Rat Tails.

[NinjaBlade]

Damn that SUCKS to the max, I don't blame you for being pissed, and I do agree he needs his ass beaten so badly until he ends up laying in a hospital bed drowning in his own blood, slowly dying. Guys like that are pricks, forget about him, he's not worth the stress, he's just a guy, nothing more. I broke up with my boyfriend last month and all, pretty much told him straight up it was over, then continued playing Call Of Duty LOL. You're much more better off playing video games, they're more fun than boyfriends. =)

[KittyCat72]

Honestly, I am going to have to -gasp- agree with Exodyus here.
One thing I love seeing is a fast growing relationship- because the faster it grows, the faster it falls.
One of my friends, Emily, started dating Adam, this little skater guy she has had a "crush" on. They start dating. During this, they make out, Adam rubs Emily's leg (Still 14 each Lol.) and guess what?
One week after they started dating- BAM they broke it.
I find it funny how people think a fast relationship works all the time, it's only gonna work how much? Not even 30% of the time.
My opinion, though.


While I do agree with you, it can work out. I know to people who got together like the 2nd day of band camp a year ago; the day before was the first time they'd ever met. They've been going out for a while now and I can't really imagine them seperate. I honestly think that will work out... but things like that don't come along very often I suppose.

[Kujo]

Ok, I am going to be honest.. I only read a small handful of the replies to this after the OP and all the replies she herself posted... and I just need to say this...

After all the flirting I have poured over you, you move on after this douche-nozzle and dont even consider ME in the equation?! I'm hurt.... truly hurt. Now I'll have to go find your ex and hurt him in ways only revealed humanly possible to those of us in the Military and capture it all on camera and load it up on the YouTube!

[tama-chan]

Sorry about this. It just annoys me to know that there are actually lots of girls drinking and getting drunk with guys who're already commited. Alcohol is like fuel to the fire of lust, but they insist on drinking (including the moronic guy of course), then they end up ruining their lives and the lives of those who love them as well.

[younging94]

Why Is Everyone Just So Sad Got Dammit Damn Train.
****.

[Lord_Doom_1184]

chop him in half with an axe, you will feel better ^^

[LordLameeks]

Hmmm kinda weird you would put yo business all in the open like that but yeah.... It sux bein cheatin on and stuff iv never done it but it has happened to me before.... hope you get thro your situation best of luk

[younging94]

http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/7/l_e862c545486b46b18e7088bd13e8d1ab.jpg

Smexyy =]


You know which one im talking about :mask:

[ambergris]

No offense to anyone but it seems to me, that this thread should have stayed buried.

[Samus-Fan]

Smexyy =]


You know which one im talking about :mask:

Obviously the guy,
We know how you roll.

And yea, who revived this thread anyway?
It's been dead for a month or two now.

[younging94]

Didnt even realize it had been dead.
It just popped up as new post and i was like "Hey =O, What happened hurr".
I really do need to be more active e_e.

[LordLameeks]

Yup did the samething....

[jakncoke]

No offense to anyone but it seems to me, that this thread should have stayed buried.

a lot of threads should stay buried on this site, yet manage to get necrobumped left and right. I think I'm going to start being more aggressive with closing threads that don't need to be open anymore.

[LemonRising]

a lot of threads should stay buried on this site, yet manage to get necrobumped left and right. I think I'm going to start being more aggressive with closing threads that don't need to be open anymore.

BE AGGRESSIVE
BE BE AGGRESSIVE


Threads should all be revived so that our worst moments are brought to the surface again and again and again and aggagagagagaiganginaginaign