She says, "I need a break"

[Blackleo]

What exactly does that mean ?!?! I am confused and in an unsure place right now !!!

[Jokersvirus]

it means in a nutshell you two are broken up so she can be free and stuff..

[Blackleo]

Aye ... that's why definition about it. I just want to know all the definitions so when something does occur I won't be surprised or take it as hard ...

[Jokersvirus]

the definition varies from person to person to really understand truly you would need to talk to her about it.

[Jayhmmz]

It could mean one of two things in a nutshell.

Either what Joker said, which is a correct definition, or she could just generally need a break to put things into perspective without anything else on her mind. I called a break once, in my last relationship before the one I'm in now, but I didn't do it so I could be free and stuff; I genuinly just needed time alone without anything or anyone else to worry about but myself. Selfish I know, but I just needed to think straight and for myself!

However, just be prepared for the worst, it's always the best thing in these situations. Put things into perspective yourself, whilst you have the chance. Is it worth fighting for, or is it just going to be a pointless endeavour that will inevitably come to an end?

[Blackleo]

Yeah these two possibilities are possible. One more than the other I am afraid but yeah ... preparing for the worst is always ... painful =/ Trying to keep myself busy but they are times when it bothers me. It's been 2 weeks since she said the break thing and sometimes I am ok and sometimes it just hurts.

[Jayhmmz]

Yeah these two possibilities are possible. One more than the other I am afraid but yeah ... preparing for the worst is always ... painful =/ Trying to keep myself busy but they are times when it bothers me. It's been 2 weeks since she said the break thing and sometimes I am ok and sometimes it just hurts.

It's a *****! It really is. Something unavoidable when the situation arises. Although, something you have to go through at some stage in your life! Not sure how old you are, but if you're young, below 20, then at least you're experiencing it early!
I experienced my first major break up when I was 17, I was with the girl for two years and we were inseperable, until the painful end. Ended mutually, but it was still a bastard to swallow down.

From experience, all you have to do is think to yourself, that if you break up - it will hurt for at least a month, at most two months. After that period, you'll start to come back to your usual self, and be right as rain, ready for your next venture :)

Easier said than done, but it's always good to keep in mind.
Life goes on, you just gotta hang on and stay on top :)