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MissLEGENDARY
08-21-2008, 06:18 PM
Just wondering....Do you guys think that a Guy and Girl can be friends with out there being some sort of attraction there on someone's part? :D

Trunks
08-21-2008, 06:21 PM
I would say there is always some kind of attraction. you can still be "just friends", but that doesn't mean that there isn't an attraction.

MissLEGENDARY
08-21-2008, 06:23 PM
I agree with you. I don't think that it always ends up going further than being just buddies...but I think that the possibility is always there.

LiNuX
08-21-2008, 06:42 PM
i agree with trunks - always some kind of attraction, otherwise why would you go and be friends with someone if you weren't attracted to them or toward them in some way unless you are betting paid by someone to be friends with someone else lol...

and i have plenty of female friends with the notion of just staying friends - and i also agree with misslegendary about the possibility of attraction - happened to me before but it just never worked out for me lol...

MissLEGENDARY
08-21-2008, 07:01 PM
Yeah I ended up dating and living with my best friend of 4 years. And we have every intention of getting married when we are ready. So we had a talk last night about him having friends who are chicks...kinda makes me a little nervous but that's where that whole trust thing comes in. I don't think I've ever had a guy friend who I didn't have some feelings for.... IDK I'm not the type of chick who freaks over nothing...we will just see how it goes. :yes:

conman1000
08-21-2008, 07:06 PM
No, definatley not possible, but for me it is, I have plenty of girls who I consider "Friends" but I have the willingless only to be there friend.

Offtopic: For a second I thought you were talking about the band.

MissLEGENDARY
08-21-2008, 07:10 PM
hahaha that's funny cause I almost started the thread off with "no not the band" but I didn't know if anyone would catch that...so I didn't.

jakncoke
08-21-2008, 07:14 PM
Just wondering....Do you guys think that a Guy and Girl can be friends with out there being some sort of attraction there on someone's part? :D

yes friend zone, it can be nice but also hellish zone to fall into

MissLEGENDARY
08-21-2008, 07:53 PM
I'm pretty sure that being friends with the opposite sex goes again what we are all programmed by nature to do............make babies.

rukisuto
08-21-2008, 11:22 PM
When Harry Met Sally seems to explain the 'just friends' thing.
There's always going to be some kind of attraction between male and female friends.
Someone will probably always think about the other sexually at one time or another.

KittyCat72
08-23-2008, 01:55 PM
I think you can be friends without attraction... it doesn't happen often though. I have a band friend who is a guy but I'm attracted to him in absolutely no way.:confused1: Lol, the thought makes me sick. (not that he looks bad or anything)

Jaykub
08-23-2008, 09:42 PM
Just wondering....Do you guys think that a Guy and Girl can be friends with out there being some sort of attraction there on someone's part? :D

No way. Just no way

Iceskater101
08-24-2008, 01:35 PM
I think guys and girls can be friends
I mean I have a best guy friend but I consider him as my brother kinda because we are really close
so yes it is possible

BangkokJames
08-24-2008, 01:56 PM
guys sometimes make friends with girls who they think is hot so yeah and sometimes they make friends with girls because they have fun together

Veriaset
08-24-2008, 02:26 PM
lol Great thread and yeah Bangkok is right.

souljaa
08-24-2008, 04:15 PM
Yeah, I have many guy friends that are just my friends and I consider them like my brothers.
But there is always that attraction.

MissLEGENDARY
08-24-2008, 05:13 PM
Right I'm not saying that if a guy and a girl are friends that they will automaticly get it on...that's not the case...I just think that they will always harbor some sort of attraction for one another.