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El3mentGamer
10-17-2008, 10:02 PM
OK theres this girl named Jenna, p.s. im 13. Today after school while everybody was walking home she told me to carry her stuff to her house. When i got there she asked me to jump on her trampoline which i did. It started to rain so she told me to go inside her house, which i di again (for the first time) i stayed for ahiwle then she asked me to do the paper route with her... i did that being nice. After paper route i had to go home so, she came with. We went inside and played the wii till 6:50. It was getting dark so i had too walk her home but halfway there she said i dont gotta go the whole way so i went home.

Obviously i like her but I dont know if she likes me to. I want to ask her out but if she says no that would ruin our friendship. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, BUT I LIKE HER SOOOOOO MUCH!!!! :-(
LiNuX
10-17-2008, 10:17 PM
she said you didn't have to go the whole way? you should have said, BUT I WANT TO lol...and went

but uh..look for signals and stuff, ask her out in a subtle date or something..like a lunch or something

or ask her something like:

"hypothetically, if i were to ask you out, what would your answer be" or something like that lol...

im no expert on asking girls out, but meh..its better than nothing
El3mentGamer
10-17-2008, 10:46 PM
the question thinhg would work, but other than hypotetically? HYPOTHETICALLY makes me sound nerdy :( lol
LiNuX
10-17-2008, 11:07 PM
the question thinhg would work, but other than hypotetically? HYPOTHETICALLY makes me sound nerdy :( lol

big words make you sound nerdy? then act dumb and see if she wants you then lol

but you can use thesaurus to see if you can find a synonym for "hypothetical"

p.s. Nerds rule the world, if bill gates was worried about being nerdy, we wouldn't be here talking like this, we'd still probably be on Linux or max going slowly about
El3mentGamer
10-17-2008, 11:40 PM
im not saying big words ARE nerdy im saying big words make ME look nerdy


but this will work


but you can use thesaurus to see if you can find a synonym for "hypothetical"

thx smarty pants,, erg... uhhh... i mean LiNuX :D
Tyler
10-17-2008, 11:41 PM
Im also 13 and have been through this stage, anyway, eventually, I asked her, I was so nervous and I was really doubting if she would say yes... but, when I asked her, she said yes and told me that she has liked me for so long :o

I guess its just those flirty signs that guys never take in.

But sure man, if you really like her, ask her, and if she says no, just say can we still be friends and she will say yeh. so, that avoids the awkwardness.

P.S
Don't make your friend ask it, do it yourself and she will think bigger of you.

Hope that helps.
LiNuX
10-17-2008, 11:46 PM
im not saying big words ARE nerdy im saying big words make ME look nerdy


but this will work



thx smarty pants,, erg... uhhh... i mean LiNuX :D

ok...

you can use the words, "pretend" or "suppose" if you want - those are synonyms - for meanings of those words, visit dictionary.com!
El3mentGamer
10-18-2008, 10:30 AM
tyler your right if you asked her to still be friends that would sorta get rid of the awkwardness
Jaykub
10-18-2008, 02:36 PM
Just sit her down and say!

Look I really like being friends with you and I do not want this to mess up our friendship. If you would like do you want to go out or. Take LiNuX idea
El3mentGamer
10-18-2008, 06:15 PM
GREAT IDEA AND WORDING... now all i have to do is have the guts to do it...
Jaykub
10-18-2008, 06:49 PM
GREAT IDEA AND WORDING... now all i have to do is have the guts to do it...

Well I hope ya can find it
Jordan
10-19-2008, 07:05 AM
Just go for it. If she says no she says no and life goes on. Dont go around thinking of what could have been. That maybe a cliche' but its true.
Eric
10-19-2008, 11:25 AM
yeah just go for it. can't hurt anything. just gotta suck it up and ask
Jaykub
10-19-2008, 11:53 AM
yeah just go for it. can't hurt anything. just gotta suck it up and ask

Or you can dress like a gangster and say Now look here u r my lady now
Eric
10-19-2008, 12:12 PM
Or you can dress like a gangster and say Now look here u r my lady now

ok then....
Kiss
10-19-2008, 12:24 PM
Make sure she isn't using you. If your sure she isn't go for it. :D
LiNuX
10-19-2008, 12:46 PM
ok then....

dont think his comment even deserved your comment....
Jaykub
10-20-2008, 09:50 PM
dont think his comment even deserved your comment....

Yes I don't deserve cr*p
LiNuX
10-20-2008, 10:42 PM
Yes I don't deserve cr*p

well if you say so

but just so you know, i was regarding to your comment - but if you want to escalate it to your whole self, i wont complain
Kiss
10-21-2008, 03:50 PM
Lol. Any news on er?
ballingdj
10-21-2008, 07:28 PM
From now on go all the way home with her. Once you start doing that after about a 4-7days ask her out. You can make it too obvious.

N.E.R.D= Not Even Remotely Dorky