Mount and Blade Warband Help???

[Akatosh]

So I've trying to court this lady in Mount and Blade Warband for like ever. My relationship with her is like 28 but whenever I tried to ask her father to marry/see her, he says "From what I've heard you already talked/visisted her blah blah blah household blah blah blah honor" I got my relationship with him to 100 exactly, I almost started three wars and have made enemies with three other counts to please that warmongering bastard.

I'm starting to think it's just gliched

PS: I already tried to elope with here (I saved without exiting) my relationship goes down to 8 with here and all the other count say "You dishonor us all blah blah blah you've made a fool of count Tarchias"

[MortenNS]

Do you own a castle or a town? Because you need that to have a woman

[buizel4194]

i think all u have left is elope.